Positive Vibes

                                               Start your day off with a positive mindset.
                                                          The Law of attraction........
                                               Be Grateful, thankful and appreciative!
                                                          Watch what happens next :)

        

Healed Heart

I had a dream last night. And in this dream I gave my Best friend of 25  years a hug. Then proceeded to say:

I told her this and she believes that our Lord was speaking through me. Special? Maybe but I feel these words are special.  Not just because they came from my dream but because they seem to come from Love!

Healing words

I wrote this a couple of years ago. Not long after my Uncle and Father's passing. They passed 2 Months back to back. I saw that there were others who were in mourning also.
And I had the sudden urge to write something to help.
This is what I wrote:

Starting with some healing words. I'm not a professional or anything. But this is what I've learned in regards to keeping my sanity. I will end it all with explaining how I know!
Please be open and allow me to share.

You are emotional, upset, sad, distraught and confused about this loss. I know you don't need to be reminded but it is a fact.
It may seem like it's hitting you all at once. It may seem like the weight of the world is on your shoulders. You may even feel guilty some how. 
But you lost a loved one. No matter who it is. You have to know that they are with you.
If you sense them, think you hear them or see them. or if you dream with them then it is real.
They may not be there in physical form but they are there. It was just decided that said date of their departure was their time for transition. Transition into another aspect of life. A never ending spiritual journey. And trust me it includes you. You will meet again one day. 

Yes it hurts to no end but that's okay. Allow yourself to mourn but please do not become overwhelmed by it. Do not allow it to dictate every minute of your life.
If said departed loved one is on your mind 24/7 then it is because you miss them. 
They know that you miss them. But they want you to move on. Continue to live. Keep going to work. Those plans you had for the weekend DO NOT cancel them. Whatever it is you need/want to do, just do it!
Because no matter where you are or what you're doing they are with you.
Not to sound cliche but
If you were a spirit walking amongst your loved ones. Would you want them crying all the time and putting their lives on hold? or would you want them to keep moving forward and to continue living a full happy fulfilled life? I believe I would want the ladder.
They are no longer living in our time of war. Instead they are at peace.

You get a call and you hope it's them. Or you think you saw them sitting on your love seat from the corner of your eye. That is their imprint. That is how you know that they are still there with you. 
In your Heart and your Memory.

The one hurting now is you. But don't let it consume you. Please remember the good times and or bad times that you had with them. 

Know that if you have specific dreams about them it is their way of communicating to you that they are ok. And depending on your current worries is what would occur within said dream.

If you need to learn to focus on more positive thoughts. And want to stop crying all the time. 
Depending on your religion, I would suggest taking some time to pray or meditate daily.

When you do pray or meditate please focus on the healing processes. To do this you can sit or lay down whatever suits you. But close your eyes and think of surrounding yourself with the white light of the Holy spirit. I like to use Green light also because to me green is nature and it represents health to me. It doesn't have to be a dark or solid color. It can be sheer and almost opaque. If you can see yourself floating then that is good. This means that you are searching for your happy place. Do this for about 10 minutes. 

Let's not forget to breath.

It will be ok. 

You are ok.

They are ok.

I lost a couple of relatives back to back recently.
Being able to see them, where they are and knowing they are ok is what has kept me from crying as much as my relatives. 
I won't take credit for knowing that they are okay.
I just know that they are because it's how I see them. They are together.
They are healthy, at peace and they know I see them too!

With love

Energy

Energy is real!

Positive vibes feed off of Good intentions and vice versa for Bad intentions.

Most don't believe in this. And that is their prerogative.

But when was the last time you were fuming mad and yelling/cursing at people but got nothing but
positive feed back in return?

You get what you give. If you give positive and loving vibes.....guess what happens?

And harboring hate, anger and resentment does nothing but cause stress/tension/migraines.....the list 

goes on!

Catch a fly with HONEY not vinegar!

Storm before the Calm

Forgive for Peace

Whatever you're going through. Learn to let go. Forgiveness, is very empowering. It sets one free. Spiritually, emotionally and psychologically.

High vibrations VS Low vibrations

Healthy food = High Vibrations/Positive Energy while Junk Food = Low vibrations/Negative energy. What you put in will show in how you feel afterwards. Yes moderation is ALWAYS KEY. But if you know that what you're putting into your body is not good for you then why do you continue to do it. It's habit. Bad habits are hard to break but when will you listen to what your body is telling you? Being fat, having diabetes and HBP is never Good. Especially when It runs in your Family. Beat the odds and do something shocking. Eat healthy and get healthy. Make smart/good choices for once. But do it for life. Not just for the moment you felt high on life thinking: I hate feeling sick and being fat. Do it because you want to live a long prosperous life! Don't wait until it's too late to do something. DO IT NOW!

One Sided Love

I've got to break away
From this mental prison I put m myself in every day
The fact that I'm on one side of the door
and you're on the other
We never meet face to face
We keep our books shut
Wondering what's under the cover
We may try to skim and peak though the pages
Not anticipating anything good
But if we continue skimming and skipping and delaying
Will this become more than it should?
The fact that you hide away.
From me and the World.
When all I wanna do is show you some love
But you can't seem to accept that what's right in front of you
may be sent from up above
I try and I try to wait you out
hoping you'll come to your senses.
So tired of meaningless short talks
and bull**t romances
There is just too much doubt
Will you ever really be accepting?
We can't keep doing what we've been doing
and expect a better outcome
So let's just make this short and sweet
That way a good thing doesn't get ruined
8/10/2014

This World O Mine

I can't stand

looking at Brother Man

he doesn't just exist

He has a knack for taking

lives into his own hands
Without a second thought
so quick to pull that trigger
because he says:
This World would be a better place with
one less *****r
A word used way too often
Not another description
instead..........
a prescription for disaster.
Growing up as a little Kid
the word ran rampant
like a swarm
Still does
Cause the Parent's who raise these kids
Just don't give a dam..........
It's a shame
What's all the buzz?
How quick people are to judge
A book by a cover
Cause a Man decided to make a Woman into a Mother
before he considered making her his wife
Stop playing the blame game
Cause a Man with a certain disposition
didn't fit your description
.....of having a good reputation.
So you decided to take his life?
So when we all have the time
we should use our wisdom and knowledge
To get together and rally for Peace
If not for ourselves then
for the lives that came from our seeds.
Give them the courage they need 2 live life
full and free of fear
This is what's going on in
This World O Mine
Not worrying about what you have
Not worrying about what I will have
But appreciating all that I have here.


 7/19/2014

Family is Family

Something that happens in a lot of Families: When certain relatives are going through hard times they reach out to the ones doing good for themselves. But they don't answer the calls. That's unfortunate but that's how it happens some times. The ones doing ok don't want to lift a finger to help the ones that just got kicked out into the streets because they could barely afford to pay their rent/bills/for groceries etc. So they forget about each other for a while. While the ones struggling are going through the system trying to find a decent homeless shelter, the others are home snuggled up in their bed. Not worrying about no one else. Not even the Relatives that are struggling. Cause they gotta pay their own bills right?
Well one day when the Family that was doing really bad begins to come up and out from the dark and into the light...are finally able to do ok for themselves. They can finally afford a new place with more affordable rent/bills/groceries etc.
Both sides of the 'Family' have forgotten about each other.

One day the side of the Family; that has always done 'Good' for themselves go through a terrible time. They lose their home and can't afford their payments any more. They get kicked out into the streets with nothing but the clothing on their back and their I.D's.
Now all of a sudden they are reaching out to the relatives they turned their back on.
And guess what
They let them stay at their place because they know what it's like to get turned down by the side of the Family that's been doing good for themselves. And wouldn't wish that pain on anyone.
Moral of this story: Just cause you think you're better and just cause the Grass looks greener doesn't mean it will always stay that way.
Certain circumstances out of your control can change things at the drop of a dime.
Don't ever forget that Family, regardless of how good or bad things are, are still supposed to be there for one another.
Love, light and Blessings

Working on new Content

I deleted all of the old blog posts to make room for something new.
I will be focusing on Health.
Not just physical but Spiritual and Emotional health.
I am not ever going to try to claim that I know it all. 
Of course I don't
But, I will share information based on my own personal experiences and findings.
I will never condone the use of anything that could harm.
Quite the contrary
Instead I will focus on natural and holistic practices that have worked for me. And friends that have had similar experiences to me.
Til then I am still working on my page template/background images etc.