Put Yourself First!

I think that some of us have a hard time dealing with people's energies because ours is not balanced. Health/relationships/financial issues can all block the ability to repel negative energy. We are being forced to focus on our own issues. It's like a stresser dealing with other people's garbage on top of our own.
I think that unless we have our own issues resolved and are completely in balance that it is hard dealing with other people's issues.
It's always best to heal oneself WHOLLY before we can consider helping others to heal.
And that's not just my opinion!
It's a fact!!
For some it's instant and for others it can take years.
I believe I'm the latter unfortunately and that is due to putting my Grandmother before myself for the past 10 years.
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Positive Vibes

                                               Start your day off with a positive mindset.
                                                          The Law of attraction........
                                               Be Grateful, thankful and appreciative!
                                                          Watch what happens next :)

        

Healed Heart

I had a dream last night. And in this dream I gave my Best friend of 25  years a hug. Then proceeded to say:

I told her this and she believes that our Lord was speaking through me. Special? Maybe but I feel these words are special.  Not just because they came from my dream but because they seem to come from Love!

Healing words

I wrote this a couple of years ago. Not long after my Uncle and Father's passing. They passed 2 Months back to back. I saw that there were others who were in mourning also.
And I had the sudden urge to write something to help.
This is what I wrote:

Starting with some healing words. I'm not a professional or anything. But this is what I've learned in regards to keeping my sanity. I will end it all with explaining how I know!
Please be open and allow me to share.

You are emotional, upset, sad, distraught and confused about this loss. I know you don't need to be reminded but it is a fact.
It may seem like it's hitting you all at once. It may seem like the weight of the world is on your shoulders. You may even feel guilty some how. 
But you lost a loved one. No matter who it is. You have to know that they are with you.
If you sense them, think you hear them or see them. or if you dream with them then it is real.
They may not be there in physical form but they are there. It was just decided that said date of their departure was their time for transition. Transition into another aspect of life. A never ending spiritual journey. And trust me it includes you. You will meet again one day. 

Yes it hurts to no end but that's okay. Allow yourself to mourn but please do not become overwhelmed by it. Do not allow it to dictate every minute of your life.
If said departed loved one is on your mind 24/7 then it is because you miss them. 
They know that you miss them. But they want you to move on. Continue to live. Keep going to work. Those plans you had for the weekend DO NOT cancel them. Whatever it is you need/want to do, just do it!
Because no matter where you are or what you're doing they are with you.
Not to sound cliche but
If you were a spirit walking amongst your loved ones. Would you want them crying all the time and putting their lives on hold? or would you want them to keep moving forward and to continue living a full happy fulfilled life? I believe I would want the ladder.
They are no longer living in our time of war. Instead they are at peace.

You get a call and you hope it's them. Or you think you saw them sitting on your love seat from the corner of your eye. That is their imprint. That is how you know that they are still there with you. 
In your Heart and your Memory.

The one hurting now is you. But don't let it consume you. Please remember the good times and or bad times that you had with them. 

Know that if you have specific dreams about them it is their way of communicating to you that they are ok. And depending on your current worries is what would occur within said dream.

If you need to learn to focus on more positive thoughts. And want to stop crying all the time. 
Depending on your religion, I would suggest taking some time to pray or meditate daily.

When you do pray or meditate please focus on the healing processes. To do this you can sit or lay down whatever suits you. But close your eyes and think of surrounding yourself with the white light of the Holy spirit. I like to use Green light also because to me green is nature and it represents health to me. It doesn't have to be a dark or solid color. It can be sheer and almost opaque. If you can see yourself floating then that is good. This means that you are searching for your happy place. Do this for about 10 minutes. 

Let's not forget to breath.

It will be ok. 

You are ok.

They are ok.

I lost a couple of relatives back to back recently.
Being able to see them, where they are and knowing they are ok is what has kept me from crying as much as my relatives. 
I won't take credit for knowing that they are okay.
I just know that they are because it's how I see them. They are together.
They are healthy, at peace and they know I see them too!

With love

Energy

Energy is real!

Positive vibes feed off of Good intentions and vice versa for Bad intentions.

Most don't believe in this. And that is their prerogative.

But when was the last time you were fuming mad and yelling/cursing at people but got nothing but
positive feed back in return?

You get what you give. If you give positive and loving vibes.....guess what happens?

And harboring hate, anger and resentment does nothing but cause stress/tension/migraines.....the list 

goes on!

Catch a fly with HONEY not vinegar!

Storm before the Calm

Forgive for Peace

Whatever you're going through. Learn to let go. Forgiveness, is very empowering. It sets one free. Spiritually, emotionally and psychologically.