Put Yourself First!

I think that some of us have a hard time dealing with people's energies because ours is not balanced. Health/relationships/financial issues can all block the ability to repel negative energy. We are being forced to focus on our own issues. It's like a stresser dealing with other people's garbage on top of our own.
I think that unless we have our own issues resolved and are completely in balance that it is hard dealing with other people's issues.
It's always best to heal oneself WHOLLY before we can consider helping others to heal.
And that's not just my opinion!
It's a fact!!
For some it's instant and for others it can take years.
I believe I'm the latter unfortunately and that is due to putting my Grandmother before myself for the past 10 years.
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